One day, Buddha gave a wordless sermon to his disciples. He sat there with a white flower in his hand, he just smiled without uttering a word. All his disciples were confused and could not understand what Buddha meant or wanted to express except one disciple called Mahakasyapa, he understood the message so he smiled back without saying anything either… all was communicated and understood between them, without a word…
We are who we are. And we are at where we are supposed to be. If you are there where I am,
you will understand me without me explaining much myself to you; if you are not
where I am, you will not be able to understand me no matter how hard I try to
explain myself or how hard I prove myself to you, you won’t understand me…because
in the end, all the relationships in our lives are merely the mirrors of who we
really are and where we are at…nothing is personal.
You, who see the kindness in me have already the kindness within you;
You, who see the beauty in me have already the beauty within you;
You, who sense the wounds in me have already the wounds within you;
You, who see the separation in me have already the separation within
you;
You, who see the divinity in me have already the divinity within you…
We are truly each other’s great mirrors… nothing is personal.
As Jesus says in the Gospel of Thomas( verse’70)
‘ If you bring forth what is within you,
What you have will save you.
If you do not have that within you,
What you do not have within you will destroy you.’
So be it.
